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Mariza Villarreal
@lifewithmariza

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Listen please! I’m about to save you a ton of emotional energy. Not everything needs a response. Some people don’t understand that every situation has two perceptions. Rarely will one person fully listen to another’s side with an open mind and admit to fault. It’s rare someone will say “I’m sorry you took it that way, it’s not how it ment it” Normally when you tell someone they are wrong or they are at fault, their listening stops. They are thinking of ways to defend their position in the situation. Now imagine 2 people feeling so superior that they go back and forth defending themselves. Most people don’t want to be wrong. They create a whole story in their mind based on their perception where they are the victim. An argument is: an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one. When your heated or angry you don’t think clearly. Your not in a state of mind to admit to fault. When an argument arises people say things that they don’t mean. Words that can not be taken back. The tongue is the most dangerous weapon on the earth. My advice is to never engage in arguments. Control your emotions and learn to walk away. Clear your mind and ask yourself am I at fault? Is my anger stemming from hurt? Can I communicate that properly without causing more friction. Rarely do we look inside ourselves to recognize our triggers. If your perception won’t allow you to look at a situation and ask yourself am I the toxic one then don’t engage in heated arguments. Every disagreement has individual perceptions remember that. Most adults never learned to communicate effectively. Revisit when anger is removed and a conversation about feelings can be had. If you remove BLAME things can become clear. Be aware of where your energy is spent throughout the day. Negativity uses double the amount. Heated arguments are a waste of time because no one is listening to each other. Sometimes it’s best to walk away and keep your peace. #arguments #advice #instagram #selfhelp #perception #love #hope #insta #goodvibes #energy