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LGBTQ Educator & Speaker | Eva Bloom (MSc)
@whatsmybodydoing

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Tips to help you say what you like in bed!💬 It can feel hard to voice what you like in the bedroom!⁣ This makes sense, given most of our media & 🌽 features no communication! 🤦⁣ But with some scripts, words, and PRACTICE it can get a lot easier!⁣ Practicing negotiating, speaking up for your needs, and sharing boundaries *outside of the bedroom* is also a huge part of building these skills too! ⁣ The bedroom can add extra pressure and stress because of societal taboo around sex, and pressures to be Good in Bed™️ without any feedback 🙃⁣ (which isn’t really possible FYI)⁣ ⁣Here are 5 practices you can try to make it easier (examples in the slides):⁣ 💬 Feedback sandwich (aka Appreciation Sandwich from Allison Moon)⁣ 💬 The Number Game⁣ 💬 Positive Feedback⁣ 💬 @healingisimperfect ‘s Countdown Method 💬 Giving options⁣ ⁣ 📢 Bonus reminder: I’m booking workshops, trainings, and keynotes! ⁣ ⁣I’d love to speak at your university, college, or organization about consent & communication, queer & trans sex-ed, and more! ⁣ ⁣🔗 Inquire at evabloom.ca/work-with-me ** 🌈Hi! If you’re new here, I’m Eva Bloom! I’m a queer s*x educator, speaker, community facilitator! For more from me, check out my free newsletter (l!nk in profile). . . . . #consent #relationshiptips #communicationtips #communicationskills #communicationtools #lgbt #lgbtq