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The Gatherin Girl
@the_gatherin_girl

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On clarity and the importance of clear communication in ALL AREAS OF LIFE. It took me a very long time to finally have this moment of clarity I’ve been steeping in over the past few years. This big ass Eureka moment that I ain’t letting go of, and maybe it will help someone else. 1. Know what you bring to the table. Stop expecting others to know for you. It’s your job to know your value and your worth - it’s your job to figure that out. It’s your job to put the work in to raise it and it’s on you if you DON’T. 2.When moving forth with any sort of agreement - be as clear as day with your words. State your will’s and your won’ts, communicate your needs, your expectations, and everything in between, then write it all down. Document it all. If it’s business this is called a contract, in your personal life this is called journaling. 3.If something doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t for you. You do not have to jump at every single said “opportunity” that comes your way. On that note if someone labels something as an opportunity but isn’t paying you for your work, or expects you to do all of the work- it isn’t an opportunity. Read that again. Volunteering your time/work is a choice you make for yourself not a choice someone makes for you. 4. Nothing in this world will raise your value or worth like intentional work, time within a field, dues paid, and experiences earned. NOT ONE THING REPLACES WISDOM EARNED THROUGH EXPERIENCE. Read that again also. 5.If you want to be respected and trusted in your field of work, earn it. Work for it. Quit talking about it and do it. Time passes much quicker when we work towards something rather than sitting around talking about it. You are responsible for looking out for you. Lastly, stop worrying about what everyone else is doing. What TF are you doing ? Okay I’m done. Have a blessed day ✌️ #hardworkpaysoffs #workharder #cheflife #clarity #doyou #stfu #thisisliving #alive