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You love your partner and you think it is natural to have that urge to constantly be around them. The “urge to merge” is very common, especially when a relationship is new. But loving too much can make your partner feel suffocated. Your partner is likely to think you are smothering them and the relationship is determined to fail. RECOGNIZE THE SIGNALS OF SMOTHERING IN A RELATIONSHIP: - What is love or what does it mean to love someone truly? Do couples have to do everything together and agree on everything? Do you think once you are in a relationship you need to have full control of your partner’s life? The answer is no. Well, these are the subtle signs of a stifling relationship which is easily masked by saying loving too much isn’t bad, is it? Learn to spot the red flags. 1. YOUR PARTNER IS THE CENTER OF YOUR UNIVERSE: Do you know the feeling when giving becomes overwhelming? That’s exactly how your partner will feel when you show constant attention. Examples are: Sending long texts all day, keeping a tab about their whereabouts, wanting to spend every minute with them, or just asking for reassurance always. Loving too much is unhealthy and can hurt a relationship. 2. YOU MICROMANAGE THE RELATIONSHIP: - Micromanagement can emerge when you are making all the decisions, you are trying to take control of everything or spying on your partner. Next to this you feel upset when your partner does not agree with your plan or choices or you are defensive in every argument. Due to these actions and behavior your relationship is predetermined to go downhill. 3. YOU HAVE LOST YOURSELF IN THE RELATIONSHIP: - Your partner is your priority one and there is nothing else on your list. You have alienated from all those who have been there for you in the past. You have abandoned your friends and you make up reasons to not meet your family. You have even put all your goals on hold. It’s a surefire sign of an unhealthy relationship. TOO MUCH LOVE IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA – KEEP IT REGULATED. BALANCE IS 🔑. 🧘🏿‍♀️ 📻 . #positivity #selfcare #mentalhealth #quotes #psychology #wisdom #selfcare #sunset #boundaries #explorepage #poem #enlightenment #selflove