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Danai Maraire Couples Coach
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A wife should be a help mate to her husband [Genesis 2:18] Many women are skeptical and gun shy of playing that role today because they have been burned or seen other women burned. So there is a JUSTIFIED fear • I don’t believe in “giving in to fear.” But I do believe in paying attention to past lessons and LEARNING from them. So there ARE ways to add WISDOM to your process … and a woman should apply them • One would be wise to gather intelligence, do your due diligence, look for signs of TRUST WORTHINESS then eventually you’ll inevitably have to JUMP! • The jump is inescapable & sometimes scary, but it’s a chance you’ll ALWAYS have to take in love … • Fellas - YOU CAN HELP … If you want to see more women “helping their men” DON’T TAKE ADVANTAGE!!! We need to think as a collective and a community. If we begin to think about what is good for ALL of us and not just ONE of us in any moment, we can overcome so much and END THIS WAR between the sexes. We were called by God to LOVE ONE ANOTHER … • Let’s make that the goal. If you want the love of a woman [and I want that for you] Love her. Don’t use her or exploit her especially if you know you’re not going to stay with her. Don’t see her as expendable or a resource USEFUL to get you to your NEXT destination and then be discarded. Consider how you would feel if she did that to you. • Walk in INTEGRITY! Be your brother’s keeper. Many men are REALLY GOOD! I am so grateful for that. But you have a friend, who you KNOW is USING women. RIGHT NOW! Maybe he will get away with it. Maybe she will be left in the dust. THINK ABOUT HOW her pain will affect us as a community. You CAN do something. Challenge him to be better. For ALL of us … so our women can start feeling SAFE. And our men can start receiving the love and the help they desire … #AskDanai • #BMMFAM: What are your thoughts? ——————- • • • #MyBrothersKeeper #DoUntoOthers #LoveThyNeighbor #Helpmate #Wife #BlackWifeLife #BlackHusband #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageAdvice #BlackMarriageMovement #BlackMarriage #BlackLove #BlackDating #BeGoodToEach other #KindnessMatters #BeAGoodHuman #PromiseKeeper #Reel #RelationshipCoach #DatingCoach