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Coleen Otero
@coleenoteroceo

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My forever forty-free mood part II🔑 Y’all loved the last one so much I decided to do another one because after all there’s a laundry list of dumb stuff I no longer allow at this age hunty! I just do NOT have capacity for… 📍Arguing & Yelling. I can not engage with someone who doesn’t know how to disagree without raising their voice like a child. 📍Private friends. You only speak to me online or in private spaces but in public you act like you don’t know me. That’s weird as hell and y’all know how I feel about hell. 📍False Expectations. I use to always take people at face value. If you said it, I actually thought you meant it. But babayyyy some people be out here just saying whatever and ain’t got no intention of following up or acting on what they said. So I have ZERO expectations on anybody but me and Jesus. 📍Shady jokes. Theres usually truth in those jokes sooooo note to self… 📍No Boundaries. I use to give too many people access to me too soon in my attempt to either help them or be helped. See when you are a visionary and an influential leader some people will use the “I just wanna help/serve” card in attempt to get close to you and your network. Only to be overly critical, divisive, or flip the script where you’re helping them👀🙅🏽‍♀️. Major destruction and distraction can occur with unhealthy boundaries. 📍Non Communicators. Those who think you should know how they feel and what they need by osmosis and they get offended when you have no clue what their issue is🙅🏽‍♀️ 📍Matching peoples negative energy. 🙅🏽‍♀️Nope! Too much at stake. I let them be mad and petty all by themselves I gotta use that energy to guard my heart, focus on my family and those that are relying on my leadership 💙 If 40s are this good I can only imagine 50s🙌🥰 #40something #40 #wisdom