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Preeti Shenoy
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I have been married for 27 years and this is what I have learnt about the qualities that are MOST important for a long term relationship. (Of course there can be other qualities too .. but these are the top five MUST HAVEs if you want your relationship to last) . 1. THEY ARE RELIABLE The biggest thing in a partner is reliability. This means turning up or calling at the time they said they would, being around when they say they will, and keeping up their word to you. . . 2. THEY ARE TRUSTWORTHY You should be able to blindly trust your partner. Trust is a very important foundation for any relationship. If you find them lying to you for some reason, it’s is a big red flag. Also trust is a two way street. Both should be able to trust the other. . . 3. THEY HAVE THE SAME MENTAL WAVELENGTH In a long term relationship, you will be spending many hours together. If you are on the same mental wave length there are less chances for you to get bored. Fall in love with their mind! See if they have the mental qualities you appreciate. . . 4. THEIR VALUE SYSTEM MATCH YOURS If you value kindness and honesty, and your partner doesn’t, then it is a mismatch that can lead to problems. The way you approach spending money and saving also matters. You should have similar thoughts, else it is going to lead to clashes. . . 5. THEY ARE SUPPORTIVE Good partners should cheer each other on, and be each other’s support systems. They should encourage you to do things that make you happy. You should also be able to encourage and support their dreams, which they have for themselves. . In my twenties if you had asked me I don’t think I would have been able to list the above. It has come with many years of being together. . @satishsshenoy : Thank you for being my Rock 💗🫶🏽❤️ What are the qualities you value ? Tell me in comments 👇🏽 . . #womeninspiringwomen #qualitiestolookoutforainapartner #whatawomanmusthaveinaman #findingtherightperson #findinglove